Why can’t you just be faithful? Teni screamed while turning things upside down the bedroom. Tears were coursing down her cheeks unchecked.Please tell me this is all a bad dream. As Denola moved closer to console her, she screamed do not touch me, you disgust me. How could you? Do you ever love me? Her words hurt me, I am in the wrong, it was just a minute of madness, please forgive me. I know this is asking for too much, can you not tell anyone about this. She burst out laughing, you bet I won’t, all you care about right now is your image. She picked her shoes and walked out of his apartment and out of his life.
He did not know this, he felt the relationship could still be salvaged. He loves Teni with his whole being. How could he have known that she was going to walk in on him and Titi, it was a night of drunkenness. The previous night he went out with the guys while drinking, a familiar figure sashayed into the bar. Tolu, his friend whistled and said guess who just came in, ‘Titi with the hot bod’ everyone murmured, damn Denola this your babe is fire, that girl is hawt, but guy why you leave that babe now.
Point of correction my ex, Denola said taking a look at Titi and seeming uninterested, that ship has sailed mehn. It was as if Titi knew they were discussing her, her eyes connected with Denola as he turned back again, she raised her glass mockingly to greet him. That girl has always been a lot of trouble, he smiled to himself. Titi thinking his smile was an invitation walked up to their table and joined them. He did not want to ask her to leave so as not to make a scene and this cost him his relationship.
They got drunk taking shots of tequila, Titi jumped on the sofa and started dancing away, he had to put her down and offered to drive her home. Since his home was nearer to the bar, Titi cajoled him to take her to his house due to her drunken state, she would leave first thing the next morning. She could not afford to let her parents see her in that state. Truth be told, she will be disowned, a whole Bishop’s daughter drunk. So he took her home, she took her bath in his bathroom and came out naked and that was it. He could not blame it on his drunken state, he kept saying no Titi, Titi please but she knew his weakness and went straight for his d***. The next morning Teni met them naked on the bed.
Wasiu was en route Iya Ondo’s place to eat Pounded yam and Ogunfe(goat meat) with the fat tip Madame Teni gave him when Madame Teni’s call came in, come pick me Wasiu, she said. He had to do a 360 turn around to go pick her. He got to where she was standing and saw her crying, won se nwa wa ekun mu,e eyan kuni(why is she crying, did someone die?) Wasiu thought to himself while trying to park. Teni entered the car and said, take me home? Oh, that must be it? That’s why she is rushing home, her papa or mama don die, eh ya, poor Madame Teni. Madame Teni just blurted out Wasiu, why…why do men cheat? He was shocked at first, he looked at the rearview mirror, so na man dey make am cry like say somebody die…nawa ooo
Why Do Men Cheat
Cheating is a choice, Cheating is never justifiable under any circumstances. Cheating happens in good and bad relationships, It happens even in open relationships where extramarital sex is carefully negotiated beforehand. The freedom to leave or divorce has not made cheating obsolete. So why do men cheat?
Men cheat because they are men(it is in their DNA). Men are polygamous in nature, the idea that men are gonna be men and the popular belief among women that “every man cheats” and that cheating is ”normal” also helps to sustain this cheating culture.
They are thrill-seekers and live by the motto “You only live once,” He doesn’t think he’ll get caught. This one is plain and simple. “She’ll never find out, so why not?” Fact is, she usually does .
Men cheat because they like varieties, you know what they say about variety being the spice of life. They want to try lots of sexual experiences/fetishes with as many partners as possible. The excitement, the thrill of the chase, the conqueror, comes from primal instinct. Simply put, self-gratification
Men cheat because they lack self-discipline or control. He never intended to cheat but his weak will led him into trouble- very possible. the other person was really hot or he was seduced, this is always the excuse. And sometimes it is the situation he finds himself, he is either on vacation, stressed or simply drunk
Cheating is celebratory, men applaud one another when cheating, it is part of “the bro code”. When they see their randy friends with 3 to 5 girlfriends, they call each of these girls ”our wife”. Their randy friends can also lure them, my friend is doing it…Bad mentors too, their father or a father-figure is doing it so there is nothing wrong with it
He wants to leave her, he is not happy with the relationship. He wants to get out but he’s too much of a sissy to speak up so he cheats.
Neglect, he feels his partner is not paying enough attention to him or not spending enough time with him. The other person wasn’t really there for him, he does not feel appreciated. Their need for attention and admiration is never-ending
Sexual desire, not having sex with their partner.The other lady is giving it to him hot hot
An act of service, servicing the other women. Some men think they are God’s gift to women and that gift must surely go round
Greed, he wants to have them all in different colours, shapes, sizes, and smell
Lack of love, Insecurity ,Ego and Low self Esteem
Some men are just… for the lack of a better word, scum
Society is more tolerant of men’s misdeeds, can men learn to change their ways?
Do you know the agony the betrayed suffers? Cheating is a serious problem that can tear beautiful relationships apart in just a moment, and once this betrayal of trust is noticed, it could hardly be built back. It’s a shattering of the grand ambition of romantic love
Being in a relationship isn’t easy. It takes hard work to be committed, be involved, and remain faithful. Cheating doesn’t make anything better or resolve any current problems. In fact, it usually makes things worse and could end an otherwise great relationship. Being honest with yourself and your partner and admitting things aren’t working and that it’s time to move on. It is, after all, a more grown-up way of dealing with things. While “boys will be boys”, you are actually men. This is called “maturity.” It’s called “being an adult.” It’s called “not being a fuck up.” The best course of action before resorting to cheating is to talk to your partner, flee from that seductress, seek therapy, take a break, or admit that you need to move on and see other people.
One of the biggest enemies of a relationship is cheating. Knowing this enemy inside and out will help men remain faithful.